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Getting too attached, too soon

You really like him, we get it. But getting too attached to a new guy before you even know how much he likes you can backfire. We’re not suggesting you hold your feelings in or play hard to get, but falling too hard, too fast can end in dating disaster. Take things slow at first or at least until you know how he feels. Some guys are good at giving girls the impression they’re head over heels, when in fact they’re just biding their time until someone else comes along.

Putting your own interests aside

Starting to see someone you really click with is a great feeling, but it shouldn’t mean putting your life on hold. If you have baseball practice every Wednesday night, don’t stop going just because he calls and wants to grab a beer. You can see him afterward or the next day. If there’s something in your life that’s important, don’t cast it aside just to spend more time with someone. Fit him into your schedule -- don’t feel like you have to mold yourself to his.