Saturday, 21 December 2013
How to grow as a couple
Getting Better Together
Once you’ve been dating for a while (a year or more), the need to do
everything together starts to fade. The focus shifts slowly back to
individual ambitions and priorities, rather than couple-oriented goals.
We all need our own purposes in life, but growing not only as an
individual but also as a couple can be good for your relationship.
Here’s how.
Take a trip together.
We're not talking a one-week all-inclusive vacation, but rather something that requires a bit more work. You don't have to stay in hostels for a month, but traveling and going somewhere out of your comfort zone forces you to work as a team to overcome hurdles (missed connections, language barriers) and make the best of even difficult situations.
Volunteer together.
Whether you serve meals at a soup kitchen or help build houses with
Habitat for Humanity, volunteering together can bring you closer and
make you feel good about yourselves. Not only will you help others, but
you'll also do something positive for your relationship.
Learn something new.
Like traveling together, tackling new challenges takes you out of
your comfort zone and can be very rewarding. Learn a new language, take
up a sport neither of you have tried before, or get creative and take an
art or photography class. Whatever you choose will be a bonding
experience and something that will help you grow together.
Set a mutual goal.
When you first fell in love, you probably had a list miles long of
things you were going to do together. Whether it's running a
half-marathon, learning to surf or climbing Kilimanjaro, take some time
to come up with a mutual goal and create a plan to make it happen.
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