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How to know if he Is THE ONE?

Some tips to know the answer
1
How does he make you feel? He should make you feel good about yourself.
You can be yourself at all times and do anything with him. Challenges shouldn't scare you or make you nervous, because he makes you confident that you are strong enough to deal with them. You can be vulnerable in front of him, with or without make-up. Even sweaty after a work out. You don't feel
ashamed around him. Because he should love you no matter what. 
How ofter do you think of the future plans? Do you see yourself married and with kids? Maybe even a pet?

2
How does he treat you?
Its nice if he say "I love you first and sometimes he should say it. It means that he thinks about you and he isn't just saying it to follow the standard of just saying it. If he is shy about sharing his feelings, tell him how important it is to you that he should say it first some times.
Make sure that you don't feel pressured to be intimate when you aren't ready. If he wants your body before your heart is ready. Then he doesn't care about your needs. If he cant see past his own desires. He wont commit or start a family

Look to see if he is controlling. If he tells you what to do  or try to run your life or even manipulates you to get what he wants, then watch out. He is insecure and needs to have the upper hand in your relationship. The "ONE" will be secure of himself and allow you to be yourself.
Does he include you in his plans? Does he hide you from his friends? Does he tell you what he and his pals did last night? If he doesn't tell you things or allow you in his life, then he isn't willing to include you in his life. There may even be something wrong or shady.

Depending on far you both are on the relationship. Does he avoid conversations about your future together? Even something small like what you two
will do maybe a month later. If he proposes to soon (maybe 1 year), take time to find out why he is rushing. If he absolutely doesn't want to discuss a future together then he probably isn't the one.

3
How do you both work together?
Notice how you change each other. We change when we care deeply about another person. Sometimes we change each other for the better and sometimes we change each other for the worst. Do you have a positive impact on each other?
Are one of you becoming possessive, jealous, distrusting or always stressed out? Then chances are that he isn't the one. And you wont like who you
become with him around. Or do you inspire each other? To be kinder, happier people? That is a good and healthy relationship and you will improve each others lives.
How does he live his life? Will it coincide with yours of your glimpse of what you want in your future?  Notice how you both say you care. Is he comfortable enough to let you see his tender side? Can you tell him openly you love him? Such as "I love you so much" and "I love you more?"
How comfortable are you with each other? How balanced are you when spending time together? If the relationship is on the right track, you will feel comfortable and secure even when you aren't together, but apart.

And some more tips
Get to know him at his worst. If you can still love him at his worst. Then maybe he could be the one. But don't think of changing him. It will only create unwanted stress in the relationship. How does he behave when things aren't favorable for him? Does he handle his feelings and emotions well?
Watch him around his family and friends. Does he respect and cherish them? See how he behaves around his father. Does he love and respect his father? How does he behave with the woman in his life? Mother sisters and friends.